Here I was thinking that my wedding date was set. I'd even sent out save the dates! Then I start getting the calls and emails from the very same family who knew the wedding was in April.
'Tminx, I can't make it on that date oh. The kids are still in school'
'I thought you were picking a date around the holidays!'
'So you don't want your cousins at your wedding?'
'This is the first wedding in the family from your generation, all the grandkids want to be there, and they have exams right after'
See people throwing tantrums! WTH? Its MY wedding...you would think so.
I explicitly made sure that most of the kids were on holiday but apparently they get back to school the Monday immediately after and have exams so that was inconvenient.
My family is huge and very close, and to accomodate the bulk of them,I am now having to change the date. At first I wasn't very pleased, but I would like for my family to be present. We also had to confirm if it was okay with S's family. Once we are in the all clear for the new dates, I have to go and rebook the church and hall.
I pray things get easier and smoother cos I'm getting a headache!
Meanwhile the wedding planner never showed.
I think this is all being orchestrated to drive me crazy. The devil is a liar!
