What is your fav part of a wedding

One step forward, two steps back!


Here I was thinking that my wedding date was set. I'd even sent out save the dates! Then I start getting the calls and emails from the very same family who knew the wedding was in April.

'Tminx, I can't make it on that date oh. The kids are still in school'
'I thought you were picking a date around the holidays!'
'So you don't want your cousins at your wedding?'
'This is the first wedding in the family from your generation, all the grandkids want to be there, and they have exams right after'

See people throwing tantrums! WTH? Its MY wedding...you would think so. 

I explicitly made sure that most of the kids were on holiday but apparently they get back to school the Monday immediately after and have exams so that was inconvenient. 

My family is huge and very close, and to accomodate the bulk of them,I am now having to change the date. At first I wasn't very pleased, but I would like for my family to be present. We also had to confirm if it was okay with S's family. Once we are in the all clear for the new dates, I have to go and rebook the church and hall. 

I pray things get easier and smoother cos I'm getting a headache!

Meanwhile the wedding planner never showed. 

I think this is all being orchestrated to drive me crazy. The devil is a liar!

Picture from HERE

2 Comments:

N.Z.G said...

Awww ... So sorry you have to move your wedding date:( It kinda sucks but look on the bright side -> EVERYONE YOU LOVE WILL BE THERE!

As for the wedding planner, just nix her/him and find someone who knows, understands, and breaths the fact that YOU (the Client) COMES 1ST.

Happy Planning:)

Double Eph said...

But some of us have bought our tickets already based on the old date na?
I demand compensation!

But seriously it wont be a wedding without some faffing around with dates would it?

When we were getting married, we went through 5 dates due to a combination of unavailability of Pastors, very close friends getting married on the same day and my favourite, local govt elections happening on the first date we chose.

These things are inevitable....man proposes, God prevails.

Your wedding will be fine...:-)

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